SHMILY Review & Giveaway: Still needing Valentine’s Day gift ideas?

On the computer…
hidden in a drawer..
in a shoe…
taped to my favorite drink..
in a pocket…

What is SHMILY:
SHMILY coins are small (1½” round) wooden tokens that can be hidden in your loved one’s wallet, purse, lunchbag, pillow, suitcase, dashboard, under their windshield wiper, in a card, briefcase, or any other place where it is sure to be found with an appreciative smile. SHMILY coins renew the playful part of any loving relationship, whether it’s a spouse, sibling, child or friend. Everyone enjoys being reminded that they are loved–especially when the reminder comes at an unexpected time or place!

The SHMILY story:
My grandparents were married for over half a century, and played their own special game from the time they had met each other. The goal of their game was to write the word “SHMILY” in a surprise place for the other to find.

They took turns leaving “SHMILY” around the house, and as soon as one of them discovered it, it was their turn to hide it once more. They dragged “SHMILY” with their fingers through the sugar and flour containers to await whoever was preparing the next meal. They smeared it in the dew on the windows overlooking the patio where my grandma always fed us warm, homemade pudding with blue food coloring. “SHMILY” was written in the steam left on the mirror after a hot shower, where it would reappear bath after bath.

At one point, my grandmother even unrolled an entire roll of toilet paper to leave “SHMILY” on the very last sheet. There was no end to the places “SHMILY” would pop up. Little notes with “SHMILY” scribbled hurriedly were found on dashboards and car seats, or taped to steering wheels. The notes were stuffed inside shoes and left under pillows. “SHMILY” was written in the dust upon the mantel and traced in the ashes of the fireplace.

This mysterious word was as much a part of my grandparents’ house as the furniture. It took me a long time before I was able to fully appreciate my grandparent’s game. Skepticism has kept me from believing in true love – one that is pure and enduring. However, I never doubted my grandparents’ relationship. They had love down pat. It was more than their flirtatious little games; it was a way of life.

Their relationship was based on a devotion and passionate affection which not everyone is lucky enough to experience. Grandma and Grandpa held hands every chance they could. They stole kisses as they bumped into each other in their tiny kitchen. They finished each other’s sentences and shared the daily crossword puzzle and word jumble. My grandma whispered to me about how cute my grandpa was, how handsome an old man he had grown to be. She claimed that she really knew “how to pick ’em.” Before every meal they bowed heads and gave thanks, marveling at their blessings: a wonderful family, good fortune, and each other.

But there was a dark cloud in my grandparents’ life: my grandmother had breast cancer. The disease had first appeared 10 years earlier. As always, Grandpa was with her every step of the way. He comforted her in their yellow room, painted that color so she could always be surrounded by sunshine, even when she was too sick to go outside. Now the cancer was once again attacking her body. With the help of a cane and my grandfather’s steady hand, they still went to church every Sunday morning. But my grandmother grew steadily weaker until, finally, she could not leave the house anymore.

For a while, Grandpa would go to church alone, praying to God to watch over his wife. Then one day, what we all dreaded finally happened. Grandma was gone. “SHMILY.” It was scrawled in yellow on the pink ribbons of my grandmother’s funeral bouquet.

As the crowd thinned and the last mourners turned to leave, my aunts, uncles, cousins, and other family members came forward and gathered around Grandma one last time. Grandpa stepped up to my grandmother’s casket and, taking a shaky breath, he began to sing to her. Through his tears and grief, the song came, a deep and throaty lullaby. Shaking with my own sorrow, I will never forget that moment. For I knew then that, although I couldn’t begin to fathom the depth of their love, I had been privileged to witness its unmatched beauty. S-H-M-I-L-Y: See How Much I Love You.

by Laura Hammond

So, our reactions…

My husband and I have been married for over 5 years; I believe in marriage, but also know that it takes work.  SHMILY was a great way to renew our relationship.  We read the story together to create a connection with the meaning behind the coins, which was inspirational to me.  The next morning at 3am when I got up to work on my computer since I couldn’t sleep …there was a SHMILY.  It immediately brought a smile to my face.  Like a little kid, I had to go find a place to “hide” it for him.  The SHMILY coins arrived at the right time since my husband was leaving on a business trip.  Before he left he had hidden it for me; as well as, using the kids refrigerator magnetics to spell SHMILY.  We also played the game with our boys.  I enjoy hearing their giggles even if they don’t quite understand the whole concept (no, your 5’4 mom can’t see the SHMILY coin on the fireplace mantle).  I was able to spread the love to friends & family.  The great part about SHMILY coins is that no matter what stage you are in your relationship it is a great way to start a tradition, renew the bond, etc…

This is a great idea for Valentine’s Day because this is not just a gift.  It is a tradition that can be continued not just flowers, chocolates, etc.. that have limited existance.  SHMILY is something that helps to create happy memories in some many different ways for so many different relationships whether it be for couples being showered with coins on their wedding day, parent/child to help remind them while they are away at school/sleepover/camp/etc, or just to ignite the bond in your marriage!

Check out SHMILYcoins website to learn more about their company or to make a purchase

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  1. mverno says

    by actually listening to what my husband says, and we go horse racing alot which is a passion of both of ours.we love it and talk about it all the time.its very exciting and brings us together even more as a loving couple.

  2. bridget says

    i try to go out of my way to do special things for him. like cook his favorite foods or do something nice that i know he'll be asking about.

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